Ben Wa Balls..no..they can't get lost!

Ben Wa Balls are a very important product to have if you are the woman of many women that have faced issues of "loose vaginal walls".. This is very common..How many of you have sneezed or coughed or laughed so hard that you peed yourself? I have..I admit it. I had a catheter for a while when I faced surgeries at a younger age..*no...not THAT long ago..okay..mebbe over ahem..two decades..ALRIGHT three decades ago!*..So my "precious area" was not always that wonderous in "holding it" when I had the urge to go potty. Then I had my two demon spawns and forget it.!.I was constantly having to cross my legs when I coughed, sneezed or would have to threaten assault if someone were to tickle me or make me laugh. It was getting to the point to where I usually stayed close to home or would carry a change of clothes in my trunk.

Soooo....BEN WA balls..god's gifts to me..well Pure Romance's Gift to me!..These wonderful balls..* I can actually for once say.."these are beautiful balls! and gasp in amazement* For those of us who spout out watermelon sized children, or just in general have issues with incontinence. You stick these two balls in your vagina and squeeze..SQUEEZE those balls up..as long as you are sqeezing, they will stay up. For us beginners, you will notice how hard you have to work. Gravity makes them go nowhere but down and out, they will NOT get lost up there! It's always fun in the beginning because they WILL come down and we work hard to keep them up. This is good for 20 minutes a day. Pretty soon, you will be holding these up without evening noticing it and also notice that your walls are tighter, which is good for holding it when you need to urinate..your man will also notice it when lovemaking.

For those of you that wonder..well WHAT if my vaginal walls are like Superwoman..*I mean, there are some of us out there..* and they aren't coming out!?...don't freak. The key is to JUST RELAX..relax and they will come. If they don't..just remember, they are up there but they are not lost. Sit on the end of the toilet or your bed and hold your legs up...*imagine you are in the stirrups in your gynecologist's office* and bear down like you are trying to poop..or even better like you are producing another watermelon..but relax..and eventually they will find thier way out. If it came to that point where they were stuck up there..I think you can safely say you don't need the Ben Wa Balls.

IF after all that and they are still not coming out..I want to meet you..but first go to your gynecologist and proudly say "my vaginal walls are so strong I can't get my beautiful balls out"

What are Phermones..

Pheromones, or our sexual scent, can be defined as chemicals that have a biological or behavioral effect in their own right, as opposed to scents that trigger responses because of a learned association, like when you salivate after smelling your favorite food. There are specific compounds within our body odors that can potentially affect the physiology and behavior of others. Pheromones contain information about gender and the relatedness of individuals.
There are a complex numbers of factors that are involved in human sexual attraction, but it is obvious that our "sexual scent," or our pheromones, play an important role. We as humans have a highly developed intellect and a rich compliment of emotions, ambitions,
motivations and desires. Pheromones may affect our attitudes and nudge us towards a type of sexual behavior in concert with our higher intellect.
So, how do you use pheromones in your daily routine? Pure Romance offers an extensive collection of products containing pheromones, which is the key to unlocking our "sexual scent." These products react to your very own body chemistry and can enhance your mood – helping you feel more confident, sexy and daring. Pheromones can be used on a
man or a woman and the smell varies just as much as our own sexual preference varies – meaning that no two person's "sexual scents" are identical. You can use pheromones alone or with other perfumes, colognes, lotions or scented soaps to heighten your "scent."
By using pheromones you are getting down to our humanistic impulses – pure, natural attraction!

Anal Play..yes..Anal play..it's not dirty!

There's a common misconception when it comes to anal sex. A lot of people think it's gross..or it's just dirty or painful. Everyone has a right to that opinion and no one is thought less if they think that way.

I'd like to share something with you. There's a nerve bud right at the anus..that once stimulated can be very pleasurable.

The key to good anal play is communication with you and your partner. A good Lubricant. Pure Romance has several that you can choose from..Pure Pleasure is a top recommended lube but also Whipped. We have a benzocaine based cherry flavored gel that helps to relieve the discomfort. Apply a pea size amount to the anal area..give it a couple minutes..and apply Pure Pleasure..and with some communication.. you can enjoy anal play.

Another thing to consider are some anal toys. We have a Butt Plug that is popular with the men as it stimulates the anal area and male prostrate gland to provide an intense sensation. Good for foreplay..it relaxes the spincter muscle in preparation of anal intercourse.

check out http://www.mandyhays.pureromance.com/ for more anal toys. If you have any questions..please don't hesitate to email and ask..All questions are considered important!

Another common thing that people think is that anal sex is dirty because they think that there's "poop" that's going to get on each other. It is "way" up there!..it's NOT going to come out! You might feel that sensation..but it's normal.

The Ever Elusive G spot

Some of you think the G-spot doesn't exist..I assure you it does..it is just different for different people.

The G-Spot is located along the upper/front wall of the vagina, about two inches in, towards the stomach. Try some manual exploration. Lie on your back on the floor with your knees bent and rest your feet on the bed in front of you. Insert your middle finger into your vagina and gently stroke the front wall behind the pubic bone, about two inches up. You should feel a patch of skin that has a different texture from the rest of your vaginal walls, slightly rough or "ruffled." Using a "comehither" motion, press into the center of this ruffled patch until you feel an area that is sensitive to pressure. That's your G-Spot, also known as your urethral sponge. It's on the other side of your vaginal wall, which is why you'll probably respond more to pressure than light stroking. The area is about the size of a pea, but can enlarge to the size of a walnut when stimulated. You should also know that many women feel like they need to urinate when this area is stimulated. This is due to the fact that, as it enlarges, it presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder. Most women find, however, that as stimulation is continued, this feeling goes away and is replaced with pleasurable sensations.

Don't get frustrated if you can't find it...sometimes a good toy will do the trick. I have gotten feedback that two items are wonderful in the "search and conquer" of the Gspot..G Wiz and the Love Doctor. I would LOVE for any of you to please reply and add a comment..whether it be negative, or positive..or a story..or a recommendation..or advice!..

Again..I am not advertising to sell on this site, you must willingly check out my Pure Romance site.

I hope to hear from you soon!..

Another Update!

I am on a ROLL here!..lol..I read some of my old postings..*okay okay..there's only 2..I know but I read my first one* and realize there's been some wonderful changes.

I signed on three new daughters with Pure Romance and I want to acknowledge them. Since I am in Hillsboro..and you might not be?..you can very well be close to them and want to either purchase or book a party with them. My first Daughter is Dinah Wilson from Red Bluff, California..she's DEAF so if you are deaf and would like to book with someone that knows ASL..she's your girl!!! her email is dinahwilson@pureromance.com . My second Daughter is from Shawnee, Oklahoma but she will soon be moving to San Deigo in a couple months..her name is Talena Ford! Great gal...she's hearing and just full of fire!..her email is talenaford@pureromance.com , she got her own daughter who is in Shawnee as well. Her name is Crystal Yates. crystalyates@pureromance.com ..last but not least!!! Heidi Sharman is from Battleground, Washington. She's hearing as well and is raring to go!.. heidisharman@pureromance.com ..as you can see, Pure Romance is NOT about competition..we are all sisters..we all help each other out..and support each other! ARE you interested in becoming a consultant?.. Sign up under me and you won't regret it!..we do the training, you get great deals, make good money..*granted, it's work but it's rewarding..how much you earn depends on YOU* and make new friends!..I have made so many new friends..been to so many retreats and will be attending a convention in Las Vegas Paid for with Pure Romance money that I earned. You get the chance to earn or win wonderful trips. I am part of a GREAT and Successful Upline and I am looking forward to creating My own downline. I feel and know that I would be a great sponsor and will be with you every step of the way. Don't be afraid..there's NO excuse you can't do this! I quit one of my jobs and went part time with another..but with all the training I got..it gave me the self esteem and time to get another full time job that was just for ME. I was able to purchase a new car today!! a brand new 2008 Toyota Yaris!

Okay..enuff of this gushing!..but truly..I am really happy..it's been a long time since I could say that and mean it..

Well Gosh,,Where Have I been?

I created this blog to let people know my business as a Pure Romance consultant. According to Corporate Policy, we are unable to put together any websites to promote our business in the way of actually "selling our products"..I won't be doing that here..I am simply letting you know what I do...and by your own willingness, you can click that link and be directed to my website..Thanks for hearing me out.

I am a Pure Romance Consultant..as I have mentioned. I started doing this in November of 2007. I had wanted for years to find something to do that I believed in...because you can't sell stuff if you don't believe in it..right? I had hosted Passions and Pure Romance parties with the ending of each show the consultant telling me..Mandy..MY GOSH..you should be doing this!! I kept saying..I KNOW..and I want to!..but at the time I had not done my research and my husband had felt that it was a "sleazy" job..and wouldn't look good in the eyes of his department...so last October, I BARELY made it to my friend's home for her own Pure Romance hosting..being that I was so tired and burnt out from working two jobs and commuting. I needed a girl's night out so I said..darn it..I am going!..After this party..it was noticed that at every party I attended I had done most of the interpreting. I asked my "future sponsor" a bunch of questions and noticed pamplets and did the research online and saw that it's not just about "selling a s*x toy"..I was so impressed with the wonderful research they put money into..for breast cancer, and for dormitory sexual awareness. The products alone are reasons to get so excited. Not only are the "toys" but we carry bath items..massage items, VERY visual books that makes it easier for the customer to say..OH..so that's how you do that! We carry items that are for the "limitations and issues" that people suffer from..SUCH AS...

Comon!.you know what I am talking about..how many of you women out there have had children, have taken certain medications, fight depression..have diabetes?..these are just the few of the stuff...that causes us to have a low drive that affects our intimacy. We need the intimacy to make our marriages, or relationships..or just own self esteem succeed..we carry products that help with that. Not only for women but for men as well!..

Do you have any questions?..any embaressing questions?..any concerns?..I am NOT a Doctor..but I can research and answer any questions that you might have..email me at mandyhays@pureromance.com I WANT to help!..

For those of you women that just want to have FUN!..and have a girls' night in..I do theme parties!..I tell you!..they are so much fun!. You do the inviting..I show up..set my stuff up..you get a hostess gift..and 10% of your party sales..you might even get some extra discounts!..We play games and your guests get the chance to win prizes..you won't regret it!..

The Crazy Hays Household

My name is Mandy..I am a Pure Romance consultant..but this site is not about that. I just put that up there to catch people's attention...wink.. If you are interested in learning more then had to www.mandyhays.pureromance.com and check it out. As for my very own first blogspot..where do I START!? My name is Amanda Hays and go by Mandy. Married almost 15 years to Andy..*go ahead..we know you have to say it..it's okay, yes we are Mandy and Andy..* I'm a Leo, 35 years old and have two ahem..*coughing hard* wonderful children. Jimmy's 12 going on 13 in April and Miss Madeline just turned 11 today November 9th. I work for North Marion school district as an ASL instructional assistant, also as a Direct Care Provider for Edwards Center with developmentally delayed deaf clients. Along with being a Pure Romance Consultant as well. Andy is a Detective with the Violent Crimes Unit at Washington County. He's been with Law Enforcement for almost 13 years and loves what he does. Jimmy is in the 7th grade at Heritage Christian School and does really well. MaddyGirl is in the 5th grade at Witch Hazel and let's put it this way..I got what was coming to me. She's "extremely intelligent, has so much potential but isn't motivated"...I KNOW I heard that somewhere before...

We have two dogs. Ranger is Andy's former K9 partner and he's retired now..he's a German Shephard and Roxy is a Spinone Italiano..she's my sugar booger... Maddy just got a parakeet named Angel just last night as a bday gift from her grandparents..much to my chagrin.

I like to read, write, go to social events and hang out with my girls. I love tattoos and piercings..I have 10 so far and plan on getting more!..So that's it for me right now..this is kind of cool! I hope I can keep this updated!..